today was playing basketball and i realize one thing .. speech is indeed powerfull

like why do i say so 

imagine with me there is 2 matches going on .. one of the left half another on the right half .

the people on the left half kept shouting and banging and falling and grumbling . yet on the other side .. people kept laughing . caring for one another . encouraging one another .. which match do you think would be more pleasant to watch ?.. obviously is the more gentle one .. and so how is one way we can create such atmosphere ..  

simple.. by using our speech .. cause i realize this thing . in the previous few matches i play before with people i know ofcourse .. whenever i miss they will like .. "Oi.. yongen !.. secure the shot leh!...losing aready you know !?".. and well.. people gets irritated and things like that .. however . the match that i just played was different .. we were laughing and joking and there was lots of FUN .. for the first time passing to one another was so fun .. we were like .. "you shoot".. then he pass back "you shoot" then pass and pass and pass then finally someone shoot .. even if we dont score we would go :"hahahaha !.. nice try nice try ..".. and we had joy .. playing and well even the opponent team were playing cheerfully and there wasnt conflict .. people care for each other .. when bang into one another .. they put others before self .. and things like that . it was an enjoyable match .. our speech is one powerful tool God gave us .. to both build and destroy . to both encourage and to tear down .and so .. dont misuse it .. use it for the kingdom . use it to build the kingdom . dont tear it down . watch your tongue .. tame it .. and dont let it be spoilt .. 

speech is powerful watch what you say :D 

Jeremiah :D , 30mar