1. peace ?

one thing that i was just wondering was this . when should we say sorry ? only when we do wrong ?. or should we say sorry even when we are not wrong in order to end problems. cause i was thinking that it do makes some sense that we should never have conflict in our group and if a sorry can cause unity once again then .. why not ?.. even when your not wrong , and you choose to cause even more problem , then it shows one thing . pride.. do you really need to win ?. do you really need to be the right one ?. or are you going to humble yourself down and say "sorry".?. it maybe a simple word but sometimes it maybe hard to say it out . but face it man . we need to say it . say it if it can bring peace again . say it if it can end conflicts. cause seriously . the world is saying sorry only when they are wrong . lets be ambassador of God and be a salt and light . be humble . end conflicts in a smart way . dont be prideful . remember this . the most you lose is abit of your face . but well who cares ?. you earn alot more dont you ?. God looks at your heart , and not your action . having a heart that wants to please God will eventually lead you to humble yourself . and say sorry . 

2. disunity

once again . i went to play L4D. and let me share what i have learnt . simple . i've learnt that . when there is disunity in the group . the power go down . the strength of the group goes down . just before we get our com . we were just observing some other players . and i realize that they like to "solo". and which leads to disunity . and that when they go solo. slowly .. one die. then another then in the end .. all die then restart . which is quite "smart".. you know ?.. haha .. and i think the whole point im trying to drive here is that . disunity in one group will cause problem . they group will grow weak . and people will fall . build trust and unity in the group . resolve conflict immediately dont drag it . if the team dont work together . the opponent can strike us down easily . so lets stay strong together with our group . never to leave anyone behind.

3. identity ?

right cool lastly is learnt from service ofcourse . and that the thing i've learnt is that all we need to do is to please the audience of 1.. which is God . we dont need to try and please anyone else with our ability or talent . just please God with all your heart .. give God your best in doing his work . achievement is good . goals are good . but dont be enslave to them . dont let them over take your life. but live a life thats all out for God.. know that you are a child of God and that you need to be anyone else.. just be who you are and know that you have God as your father . and you are the child . please the audience of 1 .. give it your best shot 

i remember there was this saying that . the one that leads the band .. you know the one with the stick and it moves his hand "up and down , up and down" .. that one .. his back is facing the audience . cause his main role isnt to please the audience but to lead the band . for us .. same we are not to please the world .. but to please God by giving our best for him . dont be distracted by the world .. live for the audience of ONE ! :D

Jeremiah , 15mar